
About Your Symptoms & Diagnosis
"Am I in perimenopause or menopause? How can you tell?"
"Do my symptoms warrant treatment, or should I wait?"
"Could any of my symptoms be caused by other conditions?"
"Should I have any lab tests?" (FSH, estradiol, thyroid, etc.)
About Hormone Therapy Options
"Based on my health history, am I a good candidate for HRT?"
"What are the benefits and risks for ME specifically?"
"What types of HRT would you recommend?" (pill, patch, cream, gel, ring)
"Should I take estrogen only, or estrogen with progesterone?"
"What's the difference between synthetic and bioidentical hormones?"
"What dosage would you start me on?"
"How long before I notice improvements?"
"How will we monitor my progress?"
"How often will I need follow-up appointments?"
About Safety & Side Effects
"What are the side effects I should watch for?"
"How does HRT affect breast cancer risk in someone with my profile?"
"Does HRT affect my risk of heart disease or stroke?"
"Will HRT affect my bone density?"
"How long can I safely stay on HRT?"
"What screening tests will I need while on HRT?" (mammograms, etc.)
About Alternatives
"What non-hormonal options exist if HRT isn't right for me?"
"What about vaginal estrogen for vaginal symptoms only?"
"Are there lifestyle changes that could help?"
"What about supplements like black cohosh or evening primrose?"
About Logistics
"How much will this cost? Will my insurance cover it?"
"Are there generic options available?"
"What pharmacy do you recommend for compounded hormones (if applicable)?"
"What should I do if I miss a dose?"
"Can I stop HRT suddenly, or do I need to taper?"
Questions TO ASK YOUR DOCTOR ABOUT HRT
BE PREPARED. BE HEARD. BE EMPOWERED
Understanding Understanding the Difference Between Perimenopause and Menopause
Every woman experiences hormonal transitions differently — yet understanding what’s happening in your body can make all the difference. Perimenopause and menopause are part of the same natural process, but they describe different stages of a woman’s reproductive journey.
Perimenopause: The Transition Phase
Perimenopause, meaning “around menopause,” typically begins in a woman’s 40s, though it can start earlier. During this stage, estrogen and progesterone levels fluctuate unpredictably, leading to symptoms such as irregular periods, hot flashes, night sweats, mood changes, and sleep disruptions. You may also notice changes in skin texture, libido, or metabolism. This phase can last anywhere from 4 to 10 years before the final menstrual period.
Menopause: The Milestone
Menopause is officially reached 12 months after your last period. At this point, the ovaries have stopped releasing eggs, and estrogen production declines significantly. Common symptoms — such as vaginal dryness, joint stiffness, or continued hot flashes — may continue but usually stabilize over time.
Why Understanding the Difference Matters


Evidence-Based Menopause Resource List
The Menopause Society (TMS / formerly NAMS) — Their “Position Statements” section includes peer-reviewed clinical guidance on hormone therapy, non-hormonal treatments, and osteoporosis in midlife women. The Menopause Society+1
Society for Women’s Health Research (SWHR) — Menopause Program — Offers the Menopause Preparedness Toolkit: A Woman’s Empowerment Guide and related materials that focus on research-based education and improving care for women. Society for Women's Health Research+1
Endocrine Society — Their clinical practice guideline “Treatment of the Symptoms of the Menopause” supports evidence-based treatment of genitourinary and vasomotor symptoms in post-menopausal women. Endocrine Society+1
International Menopause Society (IMS) & associated Toolkit — The 2023 Practitioner’s Toolkit for Managing the Menopause consolidates guideline algorithms and best-practice summaries for clinicians worldwide. imsociety.org+1
Office on Women’s Health (U.S. Dept of Health & Human Services) — Provides accessible summary resources, research updates, and public health educational content on menopause and midlife health across populations. Office on Women's Health
Menopause Doctor Discussion Guide: Questions Every Woman Should Ask
🌿 General Understanding
What exactly is happening in my body during perimenopause and menopause?
How can I tell whether I’m in perimenopause versus menopause?
How long does this transition typically last?
🧠 Symptoms and Daily Impact
Which of my symptoms (e.g., hot flashes, sleep problems, mood changes, brain fog) are directly related to hormonal shifts?
What signs should I monitor that may indicate something other than menopause (e.g., thyroid or metabolic issues)?
How can I track my symptoms effectively to share with you at future visits?
💊 Treatment & Therapy Options
Am I a good candidate for menopausal hormone therapy (MHT) or bioidentical hormones?
What are the risks and benefits of hormone therapy for someone with my personal and family health history?
What non-hormonal options can help with symptoms such as hot flashes, vaginal dryness, or sleep issues?
Are there supplements that are safe and effective for managing menopause symptoms?
🧬 Metabolic & Long-Term Health
How does menopause affect my heart, metabolism, and bone health?
Should I have blood work done (lipid panel, glucose, thyroid, vitamin D, etc.)?
How can I prevent osteoporosis and maintain muscle mass as I age?
❤️ Mental & Emotional Well-being
Are mood swings, anxiety, or forgetfulness normal? When should I consider therapy or medication?
How do sleep problems or night sweats impact my brain and mental health?
🩸 Sexual & Vaginal Health
What can I do about vaginal dryness, discomfort, or changes in libido?
Are there safe lubricants, moisturizers, or local estrogen options I can try?
🧘 Lifestyle and Prevention
How can exercise, diet, and stress management improve my transition?
How often should I have check-ups, mammograms, bone scans, or heart screenings during this stage?
What reliable sources can I follow for ongoing menopause education?




